If not what.
Rubber band theory break up.
Perhaps you are a complainer.
Imagine that there s a giant rubber band around you and your guy.
But it s definitely true.
Here are some more suggestions if the rubber band theory is real life for you.
When you do so you cause that virtual elastic to stretch and suddenly he feels the urge to spring back read.
Don t label it right or wrong.
Sometimes they want to be close and connected like a coiled up elastic band.
Notice your patterns and when you either withdraw and pull away or feel abandoned and either push against or withdraw.
Too much pulling on an elastic band will eventually break it.
The elastic band theory states that guys are like elastic bands i later amended it to apply broadly to people.
This is the most common way of creating a big move in the markets and bubbles are a perfect example of this.
Then release the tension and the rubber band is flaccid and relaxed again.
This builds up hidden energy and once that energy is released the rubber band ejects violently to the opposite direction.
Here s a different example.
Do you think that there is any truth in the theory that relationships are all or mostly like elastic bands.
Anytime he seems to be getting distant the best counteractive tactic is to pull away a little yourself.
Get closer to you.
Just notice what happens.
When dividers are breaking down it feels like i am a rubber band and that is what i call the rubber band theory.
You may have basically told him to go away and not bother coming back.
Ok so i know what you re thinking isn t that just absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Then stretch it to its outer limits and let go again.
Imagine taking a rubber band and stretching it out twisting it around holding a tension.
The rubber band is a pattern breaker that gets your attention and reminds you that you are choosing a new behavior.
I don t always hear it referred to as the rubber band theory.
Scientists discovered in the late.
A new theory invokes the common rubber band in an attempt to explain dark energy a mysterious force causing the universe to expand at an ever increasing pace.
It acts to snap you back into the present moment so you can consciously choose a new behavior until that new behavior becomes your automatic response.